I’m about to step on some toes, but these are things I had to think through after my divorce. **DISCLAIMER** this does NOT apply to domestic dangerous situations. If safety is an issue, this isn’t for you! Kids need BOTH parents! Your kids didn’t get a divorce, YOU GUYS DID. If a child just really wants to see their Mom/Dad, LET THEM GO! Put your hurt aside and let them love their parent without your influence. My ex husband and I decided years ago that we weren’t meant to be married but bygosh we were gonna co-parent like grown ups because our boys deserve that! #coparentinggoals #foryou